78. Islam and Why Muslim Men and Women Cant be JUST Friends [The Deen Show]

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78. Islam and Why Muslim Men and Women Cant be JUST Friends [The Deen Show]

Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Adornment

It was narrated that 'Abdullah said:

"I heard the Messenger of Allah [SAW] cursing Al-Mutanammisat, women who have their teeth separated, and women who have tattoos done, those who change the creation of Allah, the Mighty and Sublime."

أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَعْمَرٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ حَمَّادٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ، عَنِ الْعُرْيَانِ بْنِ الْهَيْثَمِ، عَنْ قَبِيصَةَ بْنِ جَابِرٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَلْعَنُ الْمُتَنَمِّصَاتِ وَالْمُتَفَلِّجَاتِ وَالْمُوتَشِمَاتِ اللاَّتِي يُغَيِّرْنَ خَلْقَ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ ‏.‏

• Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
• Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 5108
• In-book reference : Book 48, Hadith 69
• English translation : Vol. 6, Book 48, Hadith 5111

Sunan Abi Dawud » Tribute, Spoils, and Rulership (Kitab Al-Kharaj, Wal-Fai' Wal-Imarah)

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

The Prophet (saws) was brought a pouch containing bead and divided it among free women and slave women. Aisha said: My father used to divide things between free men and slave.

حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُوسَى الرَّازِيُّ، أَخْبَرَنَا عِيسَى، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ نِيَارٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رضى الله عَنْهَا أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أُتِيَ بِظَبْيَةٍ فِيهَا خَرَزٌ فَقَسَمَهَا لِلْحُرَّةِ وَالأَمَةِ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ كَانَ أَبِي رضى الله عنه يَقْسِمُ لِلْحُرِّ وَالْعَبْدِ ‏.‏

• Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)   صحيح   (الألباني) حكم   :
• Reference : Sunan Abi Dawud 2952
• In-book reference : Book 20, Hadith 25
• English translation : Book 19, Hadith 2946

Sunan Ibn Majah » Etiquette

It was narrated from Aisha that the Prophet(SAW):

forbade men and women to enter bathhouses, then he allowed men to enter them wearing a waist wrap, but he did not make the same allowance for women.

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، أَنْبَأَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ شَدَّادٍ، عَنْ أَبِي عُذْرَةَ، - قَالَ وَكَانَ قَدْ أَدْرَكَ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ - عَنْ عَائِشَةَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ نَهَى الرِّجَالَ وَالنِّسَاءَ مِنَ الْحَمَّامَاتِ ثُمَّ رَخَّصَ لِلرِّجَالِ أَنْ يَدْخُلُوهَا فِي الْمَيَازِرِ وَلَمْ يُرَخِّصْ لِلنِّسَاءِ ‏.‏

• Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
• Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 3749
• In-book reference : Book 33, Hadith 93
• English translation : Vol. 5, Book 33, Hadith 3749

Sunan Ibn Majah » Tribulations

It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said:

“No morning comes but two angels call out: ‘Woe to men from women, and woe to women from men.’”

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَعَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، عَنْ خَارِجَةَ بْنِ مُصْعَبٍ، عَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ، عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ مَا مِنْ صَبَاحٍ إِلاَّ وَمَلَكَانِ يُنَادِيَانِ وَيْلٌ لِلرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ وَوَيْلٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

• Grade: Da’if (Darussalam)
• Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 3999
• In-book reference : Book 36, Hadith 74
• English translation : Vol. 5, Book 36, Hadith 3999

Mishkat al-Masabih » Marriage

Abu Huraira reported God’s Messenger as saying, “The best of the women who ride on camels are the good women of Quraish, for they are the most affectionate to small children and the most careful of what belongs to their husbands.” (Bukhari and Muslim.)

وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خَيْرُ نسَاء ركبن الْإِبِل صَالح نسَاء قُرَيْش أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى وَلَدٍ فِي صِغَرِهِ وَأَرْعَاهُ عَلَى زَوْجٍ فِي ذَاتِ يَدِهِ»

•   مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ   (الألباني) حكم   :
• Reference : Mishkat al-Masabih 3084
• In-book reference : Book 13, Hadith 5

1 ) Verse from Quran: 

 And it is He who created the human being from a fluid, and made of him relationships through marriage and mating. Your Lord has always been Capable.

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chapterNumber: 25

nameinEnglish: The Criterion

nameTrans: al-Furqan

nameinArabic: الفرقان

verseNumber: 54 

2 ) Verse from Quran: 

 When you said to him, whom Allah has blessed, and you have favored, “Keep your wife to yourself, and fear Allah.” But you hid within yourself what Allah was to disclose. And you feared the people, but it was Allah you were supposed to fear. Then, when Zaid ended his relationship with her, We gave her to you in marriage, so that there may be no restriction for believers regarding the wives of their adopted sons—when their relationship has ended. The command of Allah was fulfilled.

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chapterNumber: 33

nameinEnglish: The Confederates

nameTrans: al-Ahzab

nameinArabic: الأحزاب

verseNumber: 37 

3 ) Verse from Quran: 

 And they invented a relationship between Him and the jinn. But the jinns know that they will be summoned.

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chapterNumber: 37

nameinEnglish: The Aligners

nameTrans: as-Saffat

nameinArabic: الصافات

verseNumber: 158 

4 ) Verse from Quran: 

 Let them reside where you reside, according to your means. And do not harm them to pressure them. And if they are pregnant, then spend on them until they have delivered. And if they nurse for you, compensate them fairly. And maintain your relationship in amity. And if you have difficulty with one another, then let another woman nurse for him.

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chapterNumber: 65

nameinEnglish: Divorce

nameTrans: at-Talaq

nameinArabic: الـطلاق

verseNumber: 6 

5 ) Verse from Quran: 

 And the relationships are suspended.

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chapterNumber: 81

nameinEnglish: The Rolling

nameTrans: at-Takwir

nameinArabic: التكوير

verseNumber: 4